dispiriting
adj 1: destructive of morale and self-reliance [syn: {demoralizing},
{demoralising}, {disheartening}]
2: causing dejection; "a blue day"; "the dark days of the war";
"a week of rainy depressing weather"; "a disconsolate
winter landscape"; "the first dismal dispiriting days of
November"; "a dark gloomy day"; "grim rainy weather" [syn:
{blue}, {dark}, {depressing}, {disconsolate}, {dismal}, {gloomy},
{grim}]